Save Indian Family Foundation (SIFF) founded in 2005 is India’s largest Men’s Rights Organisation. It has thousands of members all over India and abroad. Over these years, SIFF’s activists has helped stop arrests under section 498a of IPC and backlash against movements like #MeToo.SIFF activists believe as per family courts, woman is a burden on her husband. If a woman quits her job and demands alimony, then the man has to pay alimony every month to her for next 40 to 50 years irrespective of duration of marriage.Demand for Decriminalization of Dowry Prohibition of Act. Rajesh Vakharia is president of SIFF. He says, ”When woman is such a huge financial liability on her husband, then why is it a crime if the man asks woman’s father to help share the burden? If husband asks any money to father of the woman, it is called dowry. It is a crime to tell woman’s father to share the burden.””It is time for decriminalizing Dowry Prohibition Act.” He says, Govt’s policies today are all about institutionalized discrimination of men. Kejriwal Govt in Delhi is giving free bus rides for women while charging full fare to men. Govt had made domestic violence against men legal in India. In fact, judges in courts are forcing men to stay with their abusive wives.

“Feminists as usual are cribbing about violence against women. Taapsee Pannu is acting in a movie called Thappad  and Women’s minister Smriti Irani has joined her to blame men, as if no woman perpetrates any domestic violence against her husband. 3 crore Indian men have faced domestic violence.” Says Hardik Patel of SIFF.

“Its a big myth that men and women are equal. Women are not equal to men. Women are burdens on men. Govt and Courts want women to remain as burdens on men.” He says. Hardik wants Women’s Day should be celebrated as “International Day of Burdens.” He says, “If women are a burden on husband, why is there a shame to accept this fact.”

”Every young man who is getting married must understand that as soon as he marries, his wife will be a burden on him. Whether she is educated or uneducated, he has to pay life long alimony to to her, if he and his wife face marital problems.” Says Anil Kumar, co-founder of SIFF.

Men in India suffer from biased and women centric laws as well as pressure from society. From the moment a man marries a woman, he is expected to work hard and provide for the upkeep of the family and kids, including buying or renting a house, paying for school, groceries, medicines and all kinds of expenses, without expecting anything in return. Additionally, he is in a huge legal risk if the marriage breaks down for any reason. The courts often force him to pay a good portion of his income as lifelong alimony and maintenance to his estranged wife, even if the marriage has lasted only a few days or months and even if he has married again and has a new family or old parents to support. This is why we say that “woman is a burden”. 

On the other hand, women face no pressure to work for a living, as they can simply depend on the husbands or their fathers or sons to work and take care of them. In case of a divorce, only the man gets blamed by society and has to bear the full financial costs. This state of affairs, in fact, fosters a culture of dependency and is harmful to both men and women. It also puts a burden on the economy, as one half of the population has an incentive not to work. The scale of the problem can be judged from the numbers: every year about 500,000 marriages are breaking in India and last year about 125,000 cases are filed under section 498a or anti-dowry law. In the younger age group of 25-35 years, almost 5% of couples are getting divorced now.